Every bride deserves to feel like the best version of themselves on their wedding day, and that includes finding the perfect wedding dress. If you’re a plus-size bride, the experience of shopping for your wedding gown can feel a little different. With the right mindset, support, and knowledge, finding your dream dress can be a joyful and empowering experience.
Here is everything you need to know when shopping for a plus-size wedding dress:
Start Early: Plan for Your Dream Dress
When it comes to shopping for your wedding dress, the earlier you start, the better! Wedding dresses typically take at minimum seven months to arrive after ordering, and we require three fittings to get the perfect fit. Here at I do… I do…, we carry a large selection of curvy wedding gowns for you to choose from! We carry styles from all of our designers in plus size styles, as well as the ability to order any of our gowns in a plus size as well.
Plan to start shopping around 9 months before your wedding day, especially if you are ordering a custom gown or need special alterations.
Know Your Size: Bridal Sizes vs. Ready-to-Wear Sizes
Bridal sizing can be tricky, and it’s important to know that bridal sizes run smaller than what you might wear in everyday clothing. For example, you may wear a size 14 in regular clothes, but in bridal sizing, you could be a size 18 or 20.
When trying on dresses, don’t get caught up in the number on the tag—focus on how the dress fits and feels. We take measurements for all our brides so that each dress is made to order based on your specific sizing. Be prepared for your final dress size to vary from what you’re used to in street clothes.
What to Expect When Trying on Wedding Dresses
When you head to I do… I do… for your bridal appointment, keep an open mind and prepare for a different experience than what you might expect in regular clothing stores. Here’s what you can expect:
- Multiple Options: We carry dresses in our curvy selection from a bridal size 18 and up. Many designers also have plus-size options available, so don’t be afraid to try on different styles to see what works best for your body type.
- Supportive Staff: A good bridal consultant will be understanding, supportive, and non-judgmental. All of our highly trained stylists will help you find the dress that fits your personality, style, and body, not just focus on size.
- Time to Adjust: Dresses may need to be altered for the perfect fit, so be sure to leave plenty of time for any necessary tweaks to the gown before the big day.
- Dress Sizing May Vary: Not all plus-size wedding dresses fit the same way. One designer's size 18 may feel very different from another designer’s size 18, so don’t be discouraged if a dress feels tight or loose in certain areas.
Focus on What Flatters Your Shape, Not the Size
Every bride’s body is unique, so the key to finding the perfect wedding dress is focusing on the cut, fabric, and silhouette that best flatters your shape. Here are some flattering options to consider when shopping for a plus-size wedding dress:
- A-Line Dresses: This classic silhouette works for almost every body shape. The gentle flare of the A-line is universally flattering and draws attention to your waist while giving you plenty of room in the hips and thighs.
- Ball Gown: If you’re looking for a fairytale moment, the ball gown is the dress for you. This shape has a fitted bodice and a full skirt, which is great for emphasizing an hourglass shape and balancing out fuller hips.
- Mermaid or Trumpet: If you love a more form-fitting look, the mermaid or trumpet dress can hug your curves in all the right places. It flares out at or just below the knee and highlights the natural curves of the body.
Don’t Be Afraid to Try Something Different
You might have preconceived ideas of what you should wear, but don’t be afraid to step outside of your comfort zone. Curvy brides can rock any dress style, from a sleek, minimalist look to a dramatic ball gown. Keep an open mind and let yourself try on different shapes, fabrics, and details. If you’ve always thought you couldn’t wear lace or avoid strapless designs, give them a try! You might surprise yourself with a new favorite.
Embrace Your Beauty: Confidence Is Key
Above all, remember that your confidence is the most important accessory you’ll wear on your wedding day. Choose a dress that makes you feel like the best version of yourself. Celebrate your curves, your beauty, and your uniqueness. The right wedding dress will not only fit your body but also reflect your personality and style.
You deserve to feel amazing, and there’s a perfect dress out there waiting for you. Enjoy the process, trust the professionals, and take pride in finding something that makes you feel like the radiant bride you are.